My brother ran the account. The site still asked me.

My elder brother made the account and handled the messages, which is how it is done in our family and I did not object. What I did not expect was that nothing about me could be shown to anybody until I confirmed it myself, on my own phone, from a link nobody else could use. Bhaiya was annoyed for about a day. Then he admitted it was the reason our mother agreed to the whole thing. Nayeem and I wrote for eight weeks after that, and I answered every message myself.