My sister made the profile. I made her delete half of it.

My sister made my profile while I was working nights, and the first version described a man I would not have married either. What mattered was that it asked me to confirm it before anyone could see it, so I could take out the parts that were her and put in the parts that were me. Tasnim told me later that the line I added — the one about not wanting to move abroad — was the reason she wrote. Fourteen weeks is a long courtship by our families' standards. Both sets waited.